Earlier in the day this I went on a date with a man who told me he had a thing for Asian women year. We had been sitting across from one another at a dining dining table in a fancy restaurant and he stood up to do a head-to-toe scan of me personally.
“the human body is merely so soft and perky and tanned,” he stated.
I will be fed up with being fetishised as a result of racist stereotypes about “small and compliant” Asian ladies. Credit: Stocksy
We told myself to operate. Here had been just one more guy by what is not-so-jokingly described as Yellow Fever: the sluggish and hyper-sexualisation that is discriminatory fetishisation of Asian females, mainly by white males, entirely centered on battle.
Whenever I attempted to break it well with him, he texted: “we hate you. Fortunately, you can find large number of gorgeous Japanese, Chinese and Korean girls in Sydney, therefore I would be fine.”
It is not uncommon. We have invested nearly all of my adult life expending emotional and emotional energy fending off males like him. Continue reading “I am fetishised by some white men because I am small and Asian”